If you can't get any serial output, I think you will need to unsolder flash chip, program it and then re-solder.
Without proper CHIP ID detected, I think JTAG won't work. Did you try timing trick?
Did you try linking TRST <-> VCC with 100 ohm resistor link in a cable? Some processors does need an extra connection for jtag tools to work: Pin 1 TRST must be pulled high.
I presume you tried steps written on DD-WRT:
http://www.dd-wrt.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?p=696256